Let's find a new moderator!

topic posted Wed, June 3, 2009 - 10:51 PM by  Canela, too ...
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Who wants to volunteer for the job of moderator for this tribe? (time's up, we agreed on a two weeks' wait til June 2nd, and Io never showed up)
In my personal opinion, Bink would be a good person for the job. Bink, do you accept being nominated? And do we have any other candidates?
Let's wait til Tuesday morning to see how many people we can find for this job, agreed?
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  • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

    Thu, June 4, 2009 - 4:02 AM
    I accept
    • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

      Thu, June 4, 2009 - 4:14 AM
      Guess I should actually make my pitch as to how I would moderate...

      Posts that clearly violate tribe.net's ToS will be deleted.
      Posts that are clearly spam or not at all book related will be deleted.
      Posts that involve personal attacks will be deleted.
      Posts that are requested by the author of the message to be deleted will be deleted.
      A reason will be given for any deleted messages. Nothing will be deleted without an explanation.

      Anything borderline will be discussed openly. In my opinion, all messages should either be about a book, a review of a book or a discussion that concerns the specific ideas, themes, literary devices, etc of a book or author. So a (civil) discussion concerning politics in the middle east as described by a specific book or author's body of work would be fine. On the other hand, a general discussion about the same topic that is not related to a specific book or body of work would be encouraged to be taken elsewhere. If conversations wander off topic, that is no big deal as long as it is not an outright thread-jacking. Again in that case, it would be discussed. Only extremely clear cases of inappropriate content would be deleted without discussion. And I believe very little in this world is cut and dry.

      I don't expect to being doing much in the way of moderating. I don't recall any posts that would actually require deleting from the past couple of years I have read this tribe.
      • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

        Thu, June 4, 2009 - 6:27 PM
        Bink wrote:

        >>>Posts that involve personal attacks will be deleted.<<<

        I have quite a bit of experience in moderation with email list(s). In my experience, there isn't much point in deleting posts involving personal attacks. Erasing history does not make it go away, even though someone may have an issue or two down the road for their very own words.

        Rather, what is in order in my view is, in this case, a PM from the moderator requesting them to please chill. And if the personal attacker continues and continues down that road of attacking someone, then they may find their choices as a member of the tribe perhaps dwindling...

        >>>Posts that are clearly spam or not at all book related will be deleted.<<<

        I think the second portion of this point would be problematic... Heck, every post in this thread could/would be deleted. The point being there are posts in many threads that do not speak to a book or author (i.e. where the thread typically does).

        Bink, did you mean "thread?"

        Early on in this conversation about moderation of this tribe there were folks pointing out there being very little if any need according to history and practice to ever delete anything on this tribe, and, more importantly, moving toward a supposed replacement of moderation would move according to consensus. Of course, I welcome your ideas and anyone's on moderation. But my basic point is, in seeking to be the new moderator, please also find the consensus on the few basic things required of moderation of <this> tribe.

        Having said all this, I would like most of all among any supposed short list of tasks, there being simply a promise of the moderator to be responsive to the tribe's members with regard to moderation of the tribe. Just may never be much else to do as moderator beyond that?
        • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

          Thu, June 4, 2009 - 6:48 PM
          nathan: "Having said all this, I would like most of all among any supposed short list of tasks, there being simply a promise of the moderator to be responsive to the tribe's members with regard to moderation of the tribe."

          Well said nathan-
          I was going to nominate you, but if Bink is up for it, Here's my vote to add to the chorus!
          • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

            Fri, June 5, 2009 - 10:38 PM
            I second for Nathan. Bink I also liked what you had to say so this isn't a vote against you, this is a vote for a lighter touch.
            • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

              Fri, June 5, 2009 - 10:57 PM
              Bink wrote:
              "I don't recall any posts that would actually require deleting from the past couple of years I have read this tribe"

              I think, this shows the lightness of Bink's touch. And I think, he has shown a wise, sensitive way of responding to controversy etc. before, so there would not be anything to worry about regarding heavy-handed moderation, Nathan. Having Bink as a moderator sounds good to me. = )
        • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

          Sat, June 6, 2009 - 4:09 PM
          On the personal attacks issue-

          I agree that deletion rarely solves the problem. Deleting messages rarely solves much of anything. Each situation is different also. Someone responding in a heated debate with, "You are a moron and I don't care what you think" is pretty mild and would likely just be addressed with the poster being told to chill. On the other hand, actual threats like, "You are a moron and I'm going to kill you" would be different.

          On the posts that are clearly spam or not at all book related-

          I'd use judgment. The same message Nathan pulled that quote from also included "If conversations wander off topic, that is no big deal as long as it is not an outright thread-jacking. Again in that case, it would be discussed."

          And I'd like to reiterate that I can not recall ever seeing a message on this tribe that I would have deleted were I moderator. I think the only reason this tribe needs a moderator is to deal with spammers if they pop up and the very rare reminder to chill out and be civil when a discussion gets heated.

          I would of course also be responsive to the members of the tribe, but that phrase worries to some degree. It sounds kind of like a politician making promises to do what is right by the constituents, when that is not possible all of the time. If it is just meant as responding to concerns, questions, complaints, etc, that is no big deal. But sometimes people can be rather demanding and incapable or unwilling to respect other opinions.
          • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

            Sat, June 6, 2009 - 4:36 PM
            Don't worry Bink, this is a low maintenance tribe. I just would prefer to have an active moderator in case people do start in on personal attacks. I've seen some pretty ugly things elsewhere.
          • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

            Sat, June 6, 2009 - 8:24 PM
            Thank you for your responses Bink.

            I appreciate dialogue as well as consensus and have some more questions of you seeking clarifications.


            You wrote earlier:

            >>>On the other hand, a general discussion about the same topic that is not related to a specific book or body of work would be encouraged to be taken elsewhere.<<<

            I assume you mean by "general discussion" here, <topics> started by someone without reference to a book/body of work?

            Which would be different than if someone started a topic on some book, a discussion or two within that thread venturing off-topic, right?



            >>>I'd use judgment....If conversations wander off topic, that is no big deal as long as it is not an outright thread-jacking. Again in that case, it would be discussed.<<<

            I have seen various kinds of so-called "thread jacking," and I have seen various definitions, as well as ways and suggested ways for anyone -- member and/or moderator -- to respond to "thread-jacking." Care to elaborate -- any examples from this tribe you have in-mind?

            And therefore what would your response(s) be as a moderator of this tribe if "thread-jacking" should occur -- could you elaborate on just what you mean by "it would be discussed?" And by "I'd use judgment?"



            >>>On the other hand, actual threats like, "You are a moron and I'm going to kill you" would be different.<<<

            What then would your response be to someone saying "I'm going to kill you?"



            >>>Someone responding in a heated debate with, "You are a moron and I don't care what you think" is pretty mild and would likely just be addressed with the poster being told to chill<<<

            Care to elaborate on what you mean exactly by "being told....?"



            >>>I would of course also be responsive to the members of the tribe, but that phrase worries to some degree. It sounds kind of like a politician making promises to do what is right by the constituents, when that is not possible all of the time. If it is just meant as responding to concerns, questions, complaints, etc, that is no big deal. But sometimes people can be rather demanding and incapable or unwilling to respect other opinions.<<<

            Yes. I would simply appreciate a responsiveness on behalf of the moderator to the members of the tribe...relating to moderation of the tribe. "Moderation" in this latter sense being on the one hand not necessarily something residing in or with the moderator, and on the other hand, being a highlight of the difference between an overly active moderator and one that is basically responsive...to the members seeking them out. Of course, as with TOU or CofC violations, or with possible legal infractions or even personal attacks in a rather calm tribe, each their own learning curve...

            As for a "promise" to be responsive to the members of the tribe with regard to moderation of the tribe, I would therefore elaborate that I look forward to someone looking to be a moderator of this tribe being up-front and honest about arguably the most basic task of moderator. Whether it's someone looking for help with relation to someone making personal attacks, or with someone having some technical issue, although there may be a wide range of responses with each person being a moderator being unique, I certainly am not comfortable with someone who is looking to be a moderator <for any other tasks> beyond this.
            • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

              Sun, June 7, 2009 - 7:38 AM

              >>I assume you mean by "general discussion" here, <topics> started by someone without reference to a book/body of work?

              Which would be different than if someone started a topic on some book, a discussion or two within that thread venturing off-topic, right?<<

              I think we are talking about the same thing. If someone came in here and just started topic on say the sub-prime lending market fiasco, that would be encouraged to go elsewhere. If someone posted about a book on the same subject and there was a conversation that meandered off topic, that would be different.

              >>I have seen various kinds of so-called "thread jacking," and I have seen various definitions, as well as ways and suggested ways for anyone -- member and/or moderator -- to respond to "thread-jacking." Care to elaborate -- any examples from this tribe you have in-mind?<<

              For threadjacking, I will use the definition: "Taking over a conversation/thread by discussing something unrelated to the conversation previously taking place. For instance, if some people came into a topic discussing a book on the history of the ancient Levant region and started having a PC vs Mac debate. I know that is a pretty extreme difference, but that would be "obvious threadjacking" to me, with emphasis on the obvious. I have not seen a case of this here. Very few of the threads on here are active enough to even really be hijacked.

              >>And therefore what would your response(s) be as a moderator of this tribe if "thread-jacking" should occur -- could you elaborate on just what you mean by "it would be discussed?" And by "I'd use judgment?"<<

              Mostly, I would ask the posters to stay on topic, start a new thread for their conversation, or take it to PMs. If they think what they are posting is relative to the topic, then they are free to express that. If they make a good and reasonable argument, then I would probably do nothing else. If they are assholes and trolls, then I might delete their unrelated messages. Each situation is different, predicting how things are going to work in advance is difficult, especially when there is no history of it here to look at.


              >>What then would your response be to someone saying "I'm going to kill you?"<<

              It would again depend on the circumstances. If the person making the threat is normally not overly aggressive and just lost their cool in a heated debate, then I would probably say something to them and see what their response was. If the person was regullarly insulting people and threatening people, I would probably forward the offending messages to the tribe.net admins for them to deal with. If the person was some mentally distressed cyber stalker who was harassing a specific person, I would ask the object of their aggressions what they wanted to do.



              >>Care to elaborate on what you mean exactly by "being told....?"<<

              Yes, I would send them a message telling them personal attacks and insults are not welcome on this tribe. I would tailor the message in a way that I felt was best, considering the circumstances and context of the situation. For consistent offenders it might just be a straight up, "Stop the insults and personal attacks, next time I forward it to tribe.net and ask for you to be banned." If it is someone who just didn't give themselves to cool down before hitting 'submit', it would be much more tactful with no threat of involving the tribe.net admins.




              >>Yes. I would simply appreciate a responsiveness on behalf of the moderator to the members of the tribe...relating to moderation of the tribe. "Moderation" in this latter sense being on the one hand not necessarily something residing in or with the moderator, and on the other hand, being a highlight of the difference between an overly active moderator and one that is basically responsive...to the members seeking them out. Of course, as with TOU or CofC violations, or with possible legal infractions or even personal attacks in a rather calm tribe, each their own learning curve...

              As for a "promise" to be responsive to the members of the tribe with regard to moderation of the tribe, I would therefore elaborate that I look forward to someone looking to be a moderator of this tribe being up-front and honest about arguably the most basic task of moderator. Whether it's someone looking for help with relation to someone making personal attacks, or with someone having some technical issue, although there may be a wide range of responses with each person being a moderator being unique, I certainly am not comfortable with someone who is looking to be a moderator <for any other tasks> beyond this.<<

              The ideal situation, as far as I'm concerned, is that the moderator will never have to do anything more then the very rare "please stay somewhat on topic" and "chill out, it's only an internet forum" message. Hopefully they wouldn't even have to do that. I think the function of the moderator is largely to help users with problems and protect against spam or deliberate trolling.* I don't like over active moderators either. The only reason being on-topic would be an issue is because this tribe has a specific purpose. If it were a general discussion forum, then that wouldn't be an issue.

              I don't think this tribe really needs a moderator, but I've seen what can happen when you don't have a moderator and you get hit with a spammer, troll or forum raid. Moderators are good to have in case you need them, but otherwise they should be largely invisible in my opinion. I don't generally like moderation and the only reason I am willing to do it for this tribe is because it doesn't really need much moderation at all. If there were constant problems, I would have left a long time ago. I have no interest in spending my time on forum where people can't be civil and reasonable with each other and at that point, moderation is typically not going to solve the problem without a large number of bans and that is rarely productive either since the people who need to banned have probably already run off almost everyone else.

              *By 'deliberate trolling' I mean someone joining just to make completely off-topic controversial, insulting or otherwise shit-stirring posts. Posts such as, "You guys are all <string of insults questioning everyone's parentage, sexuality and social status>." I have not seen anything on here I would consider trolling either.
              • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                Sun, June 7, 2009 - 2:33 PM
                Bink for moderator!

                He has gone above and beyond in stating how he would moderate this tribe. I don't see that anyone else is asking for the position, either.

                Unless someone else speaks up saying they want to be moderator, I think this matter is settled. Bink for moderator!
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                  Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                  Sun, June 7, 2009 - 3:10 PM
                  Listen, this whole thing was stimulated by me insulting Canela for insulting my intelligence.

                  This is what you fear: someone making you see something you don't want to.

                  Check back: did this question come up in any number of years time prior to telling Canela she looked like Michael Jackson, except with better plastic surgery? No, I doubt it. So you just simply want me gone. All fine and good. Very well. Just don't be such suck-ass whiners about it.

                  Now, it might prove very well true that these pissed off Muslims will nuke a great many of our cities.

                  Shall I sit back and refrain from laughing my ass off and telling you "I told you so!" afterwards?

                  Only if tribe is kaput.

                  It's quite likely that USSR produced such weaponry, that Chechen rebels stole it, that they sold it to Al Qaeda terrorists, and that they mean to nuke most major American cities with 20-40 re-furbished Soviet nukes.

                  And what do I get? A bunch of whining by a lot of self-satisfied, complacent American fat-asses.

                  As if it is improtant. You lives could end tomorrow, whenever bin Laden decides to carry through his righteous anger against usurous, whiny, American dipshits. Our borders are practically open. He is using drug cartels to smuggle weaponry and personnel. No one is busy doing anything about it, they are too busy with partisan politics and whining over who gets control of this faltering country.

                  Best not to be in any metropolitan city center.

                  I'll delete the offending thread, but shit, I hate cowards!
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                    Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                    Sun, June 7, 2009 - 4:10 PM
                    here (in this tribe), wormy?

                    really?

                    tsk tsk.
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                      Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                      Sun, June 7, 2009 - 4:21 PM
                      What, the prey is too weak for the likes of me?

                      You shouldn't have interrupted like that.

                      I guess I'll have to PM you to satisfy your desires.

                      What, you think I don't know how you feel about me? (I know, it just changed)

                      Not supposed to be able to manipulate things like this, but that is the risk everyone takes in screwing with my business.

                      You rarely post, it appears you just wanted some attention. I guess I'll have to drive out to NM now...

                      Since SoT can't be your "friend-with-benefits"
              • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                Sun, June 7, 2009 - 6:26 PM
                Bing wrote:

                >>>The ideal situation, as far as I'm concerned, is that the moderator will never have to do anything more then the very rare "please stay somewhat on topic" and "chill out, it's only an internet forum" message. Hopefully they wouldn't even have to do that. I think the function of the moderator is largely to help users with problems and protect against spam or deliberate trolling.* I don't like over active moderators either. The only reason being on-topic would be an issue is because this tribe has a specific purpose. If it were a general discussion forum, then that wouldn't be an issue.<<<

                Do you see how some of us may feel that some things that you say, particularly in this quote above, may seem to be overly active and therefore uncomfortable, at least in how you may view where the moderator sits in relation to the <rest> of the tribe's members.

                I can relate to some things that you say in this thread Bing, but I ask of you to please perhaps consider a little more, if only to reach some consensus with me, that some of us may feel a moderator's primary task is if you will -- and particularly in this tribe -- simply to be responsive to the members with regard to the moderation of the tribe.

                -- Little if anything more. Yet perhaps you feel there are additional tasks, or "have to's?" --

                After all, what a moderator may consider spam, trolling, off-topic, or the need to chill in a tribe where they are virtually unknown may strike other members than yourself or the person at the other end differently. Whether a moderator is talking to, at, or....with someone, being a moderator doesn't make the moderator any kind of a superior, as we'd all probably agree, where dialogue and consensus could follow.
                • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                  Mon, June 8, 2009 - 6:29 PM
                  I am fully aware of this. I could have just responded to you by saying, "I promise to be responsive to the members of this tribe." But that only tells you I'm willing to make a promise and gives no assurance that I will keep it. I'm sorry if my explanations have not convinced you that I will be extremely light handed and open to discussion. I don't know how else to convince you of this.

                  Tribe.net staff made me moderator today. If you think that is wrong, feel free to contact them. But I ask you to give me the chance and see how I actually do the job. After all my actions, or lack of, will be the real proof.
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                    Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                    Mon, June 8, 2009 - 7:39 PM
                    Not cool.

                    Saying this has little to do with you Bink, though I'm sort of at a loss that you would accept given the so-called "process" leading up to it. I'm therefore not comfortable with this outcome being pretty much imposed on at least some of us.

                    I'll be emailing tribe.net pointing all these things out. It is my experience they don't have much time to focus on what is going on, so they may be open to suggestions.

                    It's never too late to redo some things, or rather, do them correctly, though....Given a fair process, and you still continue as moderator, so much the better. If you've read closely much of what I have said in this thread, Bink, it would be mistaken to conclude I would be uncomfortable with you being a moderator of this tribe. But the process getting to there should be fair.


                    • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                      Mon, June 8, 2009 - 8:07 PM
                      I mean by fair:

                      The method for a new moderator being discussed and fairly agreed upon.
                      Including:
                      Start and end of the volunteering/nomination process.
                      Start and end of the consensus/election process.
                      Any tribe.net suggestions or other being clearly made available to all.

                      I don't intend this list to be exhaustive though. Just some basics that were not taken into account.
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                        Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                        Mon, June 8, 2009 - 8:39 PM
                        Tribe is a free service.

                        Fair costs.

                        The more fair a process or procedure is, the more it costs to administrate.

                        Tribe.net could care less, being a free service. You get what you pay for. Besides, Canela had already complained to tribe.net about some bullies (never mind you she is one herself) and they told her to take over the tribe and go get 'em, because the TOU GAL couldn't be bothered, seeing as how she wasn't being paid.

                        Expediency is the name of the game.

                        The only thing I don't get is the Bing angle. How is Bing beholden to do Canela's dirty work?

                        Time will tell.
                    • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                      Mon, June 8, 2009 - 9:19 PM
                      I didn't accept. I got home from my class this evening and there was a message in my inbox from one of the tribe staff saying I was the new moderator, and that was it. If after they hear from you and presumably others and see fit to remove my moderator status, then that will be it also.

                      Other then the message telling me I was now moderator, I have had absolutely no contact with tribe staff concerning this. I have never appealed to them to make me moderator, nor did they ask if I wanted to be moderator, so I assume at least one of them read the pertinent messages on here.

                      I'm not beholding to anyone. I get no ego trip out of being moderator. If I did there would be a slew of deleted posts right now. It was fun being a jackass mod when I was 14 and had a WWIV bbs. I'm a lot older now and could give a crap less about internet drama.

                      If anyone thinks this has been unfair or there is some problem, please contact the tribe staff concerning it. That is the proper avenue and they are the only ones who have any kind of actual authority to do anything. If those who are opposed to this want to have a place to discuss to it and organize instead of just randomly PMing tribe staff that is fine. But I would hope we can stop futilely bickering about it. Accusations and insults here will accomplish nothing.

                      I find it awesomely ironic that the only thing on this tribe that probably needs moderation is the discussion on moderation. But in the considering it would only be more ridiculous if it were moderated, I'll leave it be. Just please keep it contained to one or two threads and keep it academic and impersonal.

                      Oh and I should note, that the very first message after becoming moderator was a request to the lock tribe down. Should I be responsive to that user? (And no, it wasn't Canela, nor do I plan on doing such a thing at this time)
                      • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                        Mon, June 8, 2009 - 10:29 PM
                        Bink, you wrote:

                        >>>If anyone thinks this has been unfair or there is some problem, please contact the tribe staff concerning it.<<<

                        Do you think this was fair?

                        Do you assume someone from tribe was either following this thread closely or just decided to pop in, and popped you in as moderator on their own...? I'm not pointing fingers at anyone, but there sure is heck of a lot unknowns short of at least myself not being cool with suddenly....

                        Does it bother you at all that myself and perhaps others (though not many at all are saying so as of yet) are not happy with the process and therefore with the outcome, with several things for illustration?

                        Do you have a resolution to propose, putting the "I am the moderator" aside?
                        • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                          Tue, June 9, 2009 - 3:38 AM
                          >>Does it bother you at all that myself and perhaps others (though not many at all are saying so as of yet) are not happy with the process and therefore with the outcome, with several things for illustration? <<

                          No, it does not really bother me. No matter what, some people are going to be unhappy. And you Nathan and maybe one or two other people are the only ones who have made reasonable objections. Most people don't seem to care and handful of people have supported me.

                          I work with consensus building often. I have respect for the process, but even with 10 to 20 who all know each other well and work with each other on a regular basis, it can be extremely difficult to reach a consensus. I do not see consensus happening here, regardless of how long we discuss it.

                          >>Do you have a resolution to propose, putting the "I am the moderator" aside? <<

                          Contact the tribe admins. See what they have to say about the situation. It is their decision. Other then that, give me a chance and see if I am the horrible iron-fisted censor people fear I will be or someone who is reasonable and responsive to the members of this tribe.
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                            Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                            Tue, June 9, 2009 - 5:05 AM
                            Still smacks of a power grab, one in which you were a most eager volunteer.

                            Why was there any need for a new moderator at all, other than to serve Canela's stated purpose to use the power to shut up her invariable opponents?

                            We need a moderator to moderate the debate over who will be a moderator! LOL! Beyond that, there was no need. Power was usurped, the tribe taken from its previous moderator, who might have even been the creator of the tribe. Or is there a history of coups in this tribe?

                            Will you become an iron fisted ruler? That's the safe bet. Very few tribers can tolerate any challenge to their authority or power, once they have a little taste of it. You'll boot me, make a post about it, a few members will applaud, and you'll be intoxicated by the power and the praise. Laughably, this is the model for how tribes are moderated.
                            • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                              Tue, June 9, 2009 - 11:00 AM
                              The previous moderator, IO, was apparently AWOL. He did not respond to multiple private messages over the last few weeks. He abandoned the tribe, he was not usurped. In my opinion, there should be an moderator to quickly deal with problems that crop up, but that is about it. There was not an immediate, present need for a moderator, just a need to have one in case there was a problem.

                              >>Will you become an iron fisted ruler? That's the safe bet.<<

                              I'm not much of a betting man, but I would take that wager. I've moderated a number of forums and email lists in the past and I have rarely deleted any messages that were not spam porn/penis pill/etc spam and I don't think I've ever deleted an account that was not a spam bot.

                              >>Very few tribers can tolerate any challenge to their authority or power, once they have a little taste of it.<<

                              What authority or power? Ooooh I can delete messages from one relatively low-volume tribe and kick users off of it forcing them create an alternate account to rejoin. I could taste more power licking a 9v. I have way more power in every other aspect of my life but still manage not to abuse it, even though it is constantly challenged.


                              >>You'll boot me, make a post about it, a few members will applaud, and you'll be intoxicated by the power and the praise. Laughably, this is the model for how tribes are moderated.<<

                              It may be the model for how tribes are moderated. I however do not moderate that way. If I did there would already be several people booted off this tribe and multiple messages deleted. Instead no one has been booted and nothing has been deleted. It is an ineffective method for moderating.

                              The only scenarios I can imagine actually kicking someone off the tribe for would probably be for severe enough offenses that they would be good candidates to be kicked off tribe.net completely. So I don't really see that happening. It is possible that someone will come along and make a concerted effort to get kicked, but they are going to have to work for it. Anyone who deserves to get booted would have to be a blatant troll or spammer and since they can just make an alt account and start over again, there is hardly any point in booting them anyway.
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                                Re: Let's find a new moderator!

                                Tue, June 9, 2009 - 2:22 PM
                                If what you say about yourself is true, Bink, then Canela goofed in nominating you to be the new moderator. Her admitted and stated purpose of seeking a new moderator was to have the new moderator make her foes "shut up" and "get rid of them."

                                Imagine her disapointment when you do not do her bidding.

                                She's not the wisest judge of character, just looking at the well-known hardcore internet stalkers that she associates with. She must have mistakenly believed you would do her bidding as a reward for her having nominated you.

                                I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt and chaulk Canela's nomination of you up to her inability to tell who is who.
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    Re: Let's find a new moderator!

    Sat, June 6, 2009 - 9:57 AM
    In an effort to avoid even the slightest insinuation of impropriety, and potential accusation of a coup d'état in absentia,
    And as a show of support of his delicate touch, and silent belief in our abilities as well read Tribe members, to self govern without undo drama.
    ...Allow me to nominate the long standing silent incumbent moderator! io

    I here by nominate io for moderator.
    • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

      Sat, June 6, 2009 - 10:04 AM
      Ok, and let's all agree that if Io does not answer this call either, let's ignore his nomination. Do I get this right, that you want a tribe without any moderator, Joe, or is this just a formality? We agreed to give him two weeks to say something, until June 2nd, and he didn't.
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        Re: Let's find a new moderator!

        Sat, June 6, 2009 - 10:12 AM
        Simplify in this thread:
        Allow people to nominate and to vote for who they wish.
        I nominate the incumbent moderator, io.
        • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

          Sun, June 7, 2009 - 4:16 PM
          Since Nathan has declined accepting the nomination, my vote is also for IO. ~And Canela before you pop back on here and try to tell me what that means. I am voting for IO to be Moderator even though to YOU that means no moderator.

          I don't need or want anyone to protect me or tell me what to think, nor do I ever want to be censored or know that someone is not being allowed their expression. What might be offensive to you might be funny to me. I would like to be the one who controls what I allow into my mind, without unsolicited "helpers".
  • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

    Sun, June 7, 2009 - 6:44 PM
    I feel that we may be missing an important step here.

    The method for choosing a new moderator.

    It seems to have maybe been assumed somewhere perhaps that an election is in order, with "nominations" and "acceptances" and "plastforms" being made, and "voting" among "candidates" invariably following.

    I ask however in this literary tribe, one where conflict and competition and politics are still rather out-of-place, if we can pursue the other course, that of consensus.

    Which is basic to any healthy relationship, and which would be good for the tribe in the long run.

    Thusfar Bink is the only person stepping forward in this thread to moderate.

    I do realize and appreciate that others are looking for someone else, such as the current moderator, IO -- which however seems to be absent for the duration.

    For consensus to happen in the given circumstances, I therefore ask of everyone to dialogue with each other.

    Since IO is not present, and since no one else is at present stepping forward to also be a moderator, I therefore look forward to a consensus developing ahead with Bink and everyone else involved here.

    This means in my view that if Bink is to be a moderator of this tribe, a process will follow ahead such that everyone participating with dialogue in mind will be comfortable with that being a next step.

    But rather than guessing into the future as to what would happen if this or this not, to my question:

    Can we leave aside the method of election and instead move forward according to dialogue and consensus to there being a new moderator? If so, as Bing is currently the only person stepping forward, then dialogue and consensus will have to follow with everyone involved here for Bing to become the new moderator.
    • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

      Sun, June 7, 2009 - 6:54 PM
      'Can we leave aside the method of election and instead move forward according to dialogue and consensus to there being a new moderator? If so, as Bing is currently the only person stepping forward, then dialogue and consensus will have to follow with everyone involved here for Bing to become the new moderator. "

      There are many situations in which it is worthwhile to take the time to form a consensus, but in my opinion this is not one of them. I'm already tired of the whole thing.
      • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

        Sun, June 7, 2009 - 7:45 PM
        Point taken.

        But I don't see any reason as to why this cannot move along fairly quickly. If we set aside the idea that we are currently having an election -- which arguably we're not even into -- dialogue can ensue further and consensus can move along fairly quickly.

        I just don't see a lot of extremism going on here, while it should be underlined that anyone throwing grenades for the sake of throwing grenades or because they can't quite put them down end up leaving themselves out of the conversation. But I just don't see people inherently wanting to be asses.

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    Re: Let's find a new moderator!

    Sun, June 7, 2009 - 9:15 PM
    Almost every person who wants to be a moderator is a petty little tyrant, eager to lord over some pathetic worthless piece of cyberspace.

    The job appeals to those who have not one stitch of power in real life. They compensate for their real life failure by being petty little authoritarians in cyberspace.

    I vote to disqualify anyone who has volunteered or agreed to be the moderator.

    There are some great moderators, but they never volunteer for the job.
    • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

      Sun, June 7, 2009 - 9:26 PM
      In case you don't know who this is, in the posting above, it is Satan of Tribe. The trolls are here who are hoping to turn this into a mid fight, obviously. For those who don't know s.o.t./t.o.s., he thrives on attention and likes to discuss stuff between himself and his alts.
      Anyway, just to let you know, this election will be over and ready for processing by June 10th. According to tribe moderator election rules, we have one week.
      For those who don't know him, he thrives on attention and likes to discuss stuff between himself and his alts.
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        Re: Let's find a new moderator!

        Mon, June 8, 2009 - 7:19 AM
        "In case you don't know who this is, in the posting above, it is Satan of Tribe. The trolls are here who are hoping to turn this into a mid fight, obviously. For those who don't know s.o.t./t.o.s., he thrives on attention and likes to discuss stuff between himself and his alts.
        Anyway, just to let you know, this election will be over and ready for processing by June 10th. According to tribe moderator election rules, we have one week.
        For those who don't know him, he thrives on attention and likes to discuss stuff between himself and his alts.'

        ---you said "for those who don't know him" three times.

        ---you said "thrives on attention" twice. Actually, you could say that about anyone on tribe. No one is on tribe to be ignored.

        ---the "discuss stuff between himself and his alts" allegation is old, tiresome and false. Where do my alts carry on any discussions between themselves? That is more the kind of thing your hate club friends do, with their half dozen alts they have created for the sole purpose of talking about me and projecting all of their hatred and own vices onto me.

        ---Canela, you are smarter than these haters you have made camp with. Haven't you noticed there is something odd about those people who create numerous alts and 80 post long blogs that are devoted to the sole purpose of talking about me and hating me? In contrast, I have created no alts that are dedicated to those people, and no lengthy blogs. It is your friends who devote their long, unemployed days to monitoring me and writing about me. I don't bother following them. I know they like to imagine that I do, but I don't care enough to take more than the occassional look, when it is good for a laugh. I'm laughing at your friends and their daily threats to destroy me. I am laughing at you, too, but only because you take yourself too seriously and associate with fools.
      • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

        Mon, June 8, 2009 - 3:53 PM
        >>>Anyway, just to let you know, this election will be over and ready for processing by June 10th. According to tribe moderator election rules, we have one week.<<<

        It is mistaken to conclude that everyone who has been reasonably participating in this or the other thread Canela is behind what you say in the quote above.

        The last thing that seemed to have some consensus was giving IO until June 2 to respond to our messages to him about moderation of this tribe.

        The method, start date, duration, etc of choosing a new moderator were not substantively discussed let alone agreed upon.

        With all the other "stuff" not having to do with this tribe or with the overall discussion of "moderator" going on, there is nothing pressing such that the plan you outlined above (wherever it came from) requires everyone participating to get in lock-and-step behind it.

        Not to mention calling for a division -- otherwise known in many voting systems as an "election" -- after bypassing all of the necessary steps will haunt anyone who does get elected.

        If somehow two days from (June 9) folks here are calling anyone a winner of some election, I for one will seek clarifications from tribe.net.

        Lastly, I revert to my last post in this thread...

        Canela, some of us reasonably participating have been through some of this stuff before. Perhaps you have also...Wouldn't it be far better, indeed necessary, for the tribe in the long run if those who are interested and reasonably participating could all be listened to and agree about the steps as well as the outcome?
  • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

    Mon, June 8, 2009 - 8:51 AM
    I vote for BINK! :)
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      Re: Let's find a new moderator!

      Mon, June 8, 2009 - 9:00 AM
      Voting for someone who eagerly raised his hand to be moderator?

      I am against the idea, in principle. Not anything against Bink personally, but like I said, anyone who actually volunteers to be moderator of a tribe is suspect. Especially if they campaign on a platform of promising to be an enforcer. Does a book club really need an enforcer? Do things really get that out of hand among book readers? Oh my.
      • Re: Let's find a new moderator!

        Mon, June 8, 2009 - 6:44 PM
        Bink did not volunteer. I nominated him. Satan of Tribe brought up this point. He just joined this tribe after he noticed there may be something for him to troll about, he did not follow the process. And, apparently, neither did you and now you are falling for Satan of tribe's nonsense.
        And by the way, I think, "Love" is also SOT.

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